Dear Pillow Talk,
What is the best way to refuse giving your phone number to someone who asks for it? I don't want to be rude, but I also don't like too many people having my phone number, especially if I have no interest in seeing or talking to them again. I don't want to be mean or mess with anyone, but I'm sick of feeling like a pushover.
Thanks,
Can't Deny Any Guy
Can't Deny,
Declining to give someone your number is really tricky, especially if they seem like a fine person that you just aren't interested in (as opposed to a total jerk). I'm sure you're no stranger to the classic methods of avoiding giving out your phone number: telling someone you have a boyfriend or girlfriend, or giving them a fake number.
Although these excuses might be effective, I know that personally I hate using them because giving out fake numbers is kind of mean and because I can be single and still not want to give my phone number to everyone I meet.
Unfortunately, politely declining to give out my number is something I still struggle with, mostly because I don't think I've found the best way to do so. Usually, I just awkwardly fumble over myself, trying to think of how to say no
until I just give it to them anyway. However, I don't think that will help you in this case.
So, dear readers, I am asking you all for help with this week's question. How do YOU tell someone they aren't getting your number, or what way do you think is the best way to turn someone down?
Responses can be submitted by e-mailing postpillowtalk@gmail.com or on Twitter @post_pillowtalk. Submissions must include your first and last name, major and academic standing. The best responses will appear in Pillow Talk. Good luck!
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Mallory Long
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