How do you spice things up via Skype or texting if I have a long-distance relationship?
Alex Bill, Steph Doan
I’m interested in getting my hood pierced. Do you think potential partners will think it’s too much or consider me a slut?
My boyfriend is really into bringing food into the bedroom (he is 263 lbs.) and he just suggested he melt chocolate inside of my genitals to lick out. I am NOT comfortable with that, how do I tell him no without upsetting him?
Last week our roommate left his computer open and we decided to look at his Internet history. To our enjoyment, we came across an online dating profile he created behind our backs. Upon reading further, however, we found out he was gay and has graphic sexual fantasies about one of us. How do we figure out which roommate he has the fantasies about, and how do we approach this awkward situation?
I’ve been talking to a guy for a while now, and he hasn’t made any moves. How do I make the first move without being too forward?
I want to try masturbating with a butt plug or maybe a vibrator. Can you recommend something for a beginner?
My fiancé and I disagree on sleepwear (by this I mean wear for sleeping only). He likes to sleep in the nude and wants me to also. I like to wear sleepwear appropriate for the season so I am warm in winter and cool in summer. I wish he would wear something to sleep in also. So far we have not been able to arrive at a satisfactory compromise. What do you suggest?
Is it true that I have to use a birth control pill every time I have sex? I’ve never actually had sex before, but I want to learn about my birth control options before I start, and I don’t really know how it works. Rush Limbaugh isn’t responding to my emails.
I don’t like how male condoms feel. Is it weird if I carry around female condoms
In lieu of answering a question from readers this week, The BedPost columnists Steph Doan and Alex Bill looked back over the questions submitted this past quarter and addressed what they took away from this quarter.