BedPost: Tasteful teasing tips heat up long-distance love
How do you spice things up via Skype or texting if I have a long-distance relationship?
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How do you spice things up via Skype or texting if I have a long-distance relationship?
I’m interested in getting my hood pierced. Do you think potential partners will think it’s too much or consider me a slut?
My boyfriend is really into bringing food into the bedroom (he is 263 lbs.) and he just suggested he melt chocolate inside of my genitals to lick out. I am NOT comfortable with that, how do I tell him no without upsetting him?
Last week our roommate left his computer open and we decided to look at his Internet history. To our enjoyment, we came across an online dating profile he created behind our backs. Upon reading further, however, we found out he was gay and has graphic sexual fantasies about one of us. How do we figure out which roommate he has the fantasies about, and how do we approach this awkward situation?
I’ve been talking to a guy for a while now, and he hasn’t made any moves. How do I make the first move without being too forward?
I want to try masturbating with a butt plug or maybe a vibrator. Can you recommend something for a beginner?
My fiancé and I disagree on sleepwear (by this I mean wear for sleeping only). He likes to sleep in the nude and wants me to also. I like to wear sleepwear appropriate for the season so I am warm in winter and cool in summer. I wish he would wear something to sleep in also. So far we have not been able to arrive at a satisfactory compromise. What do you suggest?
Is it true that I have to use a birth control pill every time I have sex? I’ve never actually had sex before, but I want to learn about my birth control options before I start, and I don’t really know how it works. Rush Limbaugh isn’t responding to my emails.
I don’t like how male condoms feel. Is it weird if I carry around female condoms
In lieu of answering a question from readers this week, The BedPost columnists Steph Doan and Alex Bill looked back over the questions submitted this past quarter and addressed what they took away from this quarter.
Since I got out of a recent relationship, I’ve noticed myself becoming extremely (dependent) on masturbating much more often to fulfill the sexual need in my life. Is this attachment to sexual need going to take me over?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years. We have decided to live together. We know that my parents would not approve of this. Should we tell them now, later or not at all?
I heard these days that the backdoor is no longer off limits for girls. I have been told that they now enjoy both anal fingering and anal sex. How do I know that a girl I’m hooking up with will like this and how do I initiate this without knowing if she’s into it or not?
Dear BedPost People,
If you’re set up on two random dates in a short span and you continue to see both, at what point are you obligated to pick and/or tell one of them about the other?
Dear Bed Post,
After my lady friend is done orally examining my downtown area, she wants me to give her kisses. Obviously, that repulses me, and when I refuse to smooch, she gets upset. I don't want to give up blowies though, so what should I do?
How can I persuade my girlfriend to let me have anal sex with her?
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