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Former BedPost writer bids adieu to faithful readers for bigger plans...
I’m a junior and have been off and on dating a guy since senior year of high school. We’ve also hooked up twice (sober). However, he tells me he doesn’t want to settle down/be in a relationship until after he graduates college. There’s only one other girl he’s liked in the past three years (or at least that’s what he told me). Is this usual or do you find this sketchy?
How do you tell the difference between a shy guy and a guy that’s just not into you?
A couple of my gal pals and I were chatting about porn the other day and how girls don’t watch it. None of us have ever watched any sort of porn, but I’m (and I think they are, too) kind of curious about it now. Do girls usually watch porn? Is there special porn for girls?
My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now, and our sex life is pretty good, or at least I thought so. Recently he’s been asking a lot about anal sex, and I don’t know what to tell him. Why are boys pushing this on girls so much? Does it feel good or is it just a novel idea?
Women of America:
I just got out of a pretty heavy relationship. I don’t want to be a slut but I think I’m ready to move on. What’s the appropriate amount of time to wait before I open myself up again?
My boyfriend and I have been having sex for three months now and I still haven’t orgasmed. How do I get turned on more so that I can get off?
At the beginning of our relationship, my boyfriend and I would have sex all the time. I couldn’t keep him off me. But now it’s been more than a year, and I can barely get him to sleep with me once a week. What could I be doing wrong? And what could I do to boost his libido?
I’ve just started dating a guy I’ve had a huge crush on FOREVER. He graduated, so we’re trying this long distance. Obviously, with only getting to see him about once a month, it’s kind of important that we have sex while he visits. Unfortunately, I’m going to be on my period while he is here this weekend. Having sex on my period is not an option, so how do I tell him without freaking him out?
These are a few of my favorite things…
My boyfriend and I love to hang out and spend time together. But sometimes that's just not enough, you know? Of course we fool around and make out, but he really wants to have sex and my religion forbids sex before marriage. I think that we WILL get married after graduation, but what if I jinx it or get sent to hell because I broke the law? What can I do to satisfy him without compromising my views?
My boyfriend and I started dating a few months ago and have spent almost every moment together since. We’re both getting busy and are having what some might call separation anxiety. What is the appropriate amount of time for us to spend together to keep the spark alive without smothering each other?
So, I’ve been reading some Fifty Shades of Grey, but I had never been introduced to that kind of sex life until my long-term boyfriend pulled some of those S&M moves the other night when we were drunk. That was the first time it’s happened and it hasn’t happened since then, but should I ask him if that’s what he likes? And would it be so wrong?
Love: As a famous femme fatal singer once said, “What’s love go to do with it? (Got to do with it? Got to do with it?)”
How do you spice things up via Skype or texting if I have a long-distance relationship?
I’m interested in getting my hood pierced. Do you think potential partners will think it’s too much or consider me a slut?
My boyfriend is really into bringing food into the bedroom (he is 263 lbs.) and he just suggested he melt chocolate inside of my genitals to lick out. I am NOT comfortable with that, how do I tell him no without upsetting him?
Last week our roommate left his computer open and we decided to look at his Internet history. To our enjoyment, we came across an online dating profile he created behind our backs. Upon reading further, however, we found out he was gay and has graphic sexual fantasies about one of us. How do we figure out which roommate he has the fantasies about, and how do we approach this awkward situation?
I’ve been talking to a guy for a while now, and he hasn’t made any moves. How do I make the first move without being too forward?